5 most common regrets dying

One woman (in this case her name not important) for many years worked in hospice. Its duty – relief of dying patients. It thus literally carried out with them over the last few days and hours. From their observations, it was a kind of rating the main regrets people approached to the very edge of life.

So, the 5 most common regrets dying.

This is the most widespread disappointment among the people. When people realize that their life is almost finished, they can easily look back and see what their dreams remain unfulfilled. Most people hardly tried to fulfill even half of their dreams and were to die, knowing that this happened only because of the choices they did or didn't.

It is very important to try to implement at least some of your basic desires on their life path. Since then, when you lose your health, it is already too late to do something. Health brings the freedom that very few understand until you lose it.

This feeling was with each patient, male, about which I care. They were bored in his youth and on their relationship. Some women also expressed such a regrettable. But since most of them were the older generation, they generally do not engage in earning money for the family. All men with whom I worked, deeply regretted that spent most of his life to drab work for livelihood.

Simplifying your lifestyle can reduce the requirement to file financial disclosure statements, which do you think you need. Creating more space in your life, you become happier and more open to new opportunities.

Many people have been suppressing their feelings, to keep certain relationships with others. As a result, they agreed to mediocre existence and never become what they would like themselves to see. The emergence of many illnesses was associated with experienced feelings of bitterness and resentment.

We cannot control the reactions of others. Although initially people can respond to changes that you make in relationships, not advisable for you to read, ultimately, this raises the relations on a new healthier living. Best of all, in one way or another, eliminate unhealthy relationships of your life.

Often, these people do not even realize all the benefits of maintaining contact with their old friends until their death, had a few weeks, and already has not always been able to find. Many become so immersed in their own life that prevented their friendship for many years to pass them. There were a lot of profound remorse that their friendship was not given so much time and effort that this friendship deserved. All are bored by their friends die.

Any person who is leading an active life, tend to diminish the value of friendship. But when you stand on the threshold of death, the material side of life lose their value. Of course people want their financial affairs were in order as possible. But no money and status are ultimately irrelevant. They want to bring some value for those who love. But usually they are already too sick and tired, to cope with this task.

This kind of unfortunate was surprisingly common. Many are not aware that their happiness is a matter of choice. They were subordinated to the habits and prevailing views. In captivity they comfort ‘ ’ lifestyles. Because of the fear of change they pretend to others and to ourselves that were satisfied with their lives.

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